UDON THANI: The ashes of Bank Lester, a 27-year-old man who tragically died from alcohol-induced shock, have been laid to rest under a champaka tree in a cemetery in Udon Thani, following a heartfelt decision by his grandmother, Mrs. Phonthip, also known as Grandma Lek. The burial took place after the cremation ceremony, as the family gathered to honor his memory in accordance with their beliefs.
According to Thai News Agency, Grandma Lek, aged 80, recently relocated from her previous residence to live with her son-in-law, Mr. Prasert, in Udon Thani Province, bringing along her grandson’s ashes. Accompanied by her son, Uncle Thep, she chose this move due to her strong affection for her son-in-law, whom she regards as her own son. The new accommodation, a single-story concrete house with two bedrooms, remains under construction, with some walls yet to be built.
Grandma Lek expressed her ongoing grief and determination for justice. She shared her emotional journey, detailing how she felt her grandson’s presence during the move and smelled incense and perfume as if Bank was with her. She pledged to pursue justice for those responsible for his death, emphasizing her commitment to see the matter through to its conclusion. Plans to make merit on the 7th and 100th days after Bank’s death have been set, as a tribute to his memory.
Mr. Prasert, 58, clarified the circumstances surrounding Grandma Lek’s decision to move in with him, highlighting that it was entirely her choice. He addressed the family’s plans to build a house for her, mentioning a budget of 1 million baht for the project on a 30 square wah plot. He also dispelled rumors regarding financial motives, asserting his role as a supportive father during the funeral proceedings and his intent to care for Grandma Lek as his own mother.
Mr. Prasert further explained his longstanding relationship with Grandma Lek, dating back to 1993-1999, when Nong Bank was just two years old. Despite separating from his wife, he maintained contact with his son and continued to cherish Grandma Lek as a maternal figure, especially following the passing of his own mother.